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DATING SAFETY TIPS FOR TEENS
ACQUAINTANCE RAPE is defined as forced sexual intercourse (or other
sexual acts) between two people who know each other. The relationship
can be any acquaintance, including a date, teacher/student, friend,
employer, etc.
DATE RAPE is defined as forced sexual intercourse (or other sexual acts)
that occur between a dating couple or while on a date. There are ways to
minimize the risk of date rape. Here are some safety tips for self -
protection.
1. YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SAY NO! You have the right to set limits and
the right to not be touched against your will.
2. COMMUNICATE YOUR LIMITS CLEARLY. Don't be afraid of being impolite.
Make sure your NONVERBAL BEHAVIOR is consistent with your VERBAL
behavior. NO means NO. Mean what you say and say what you mean!
3. TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS. If you feel uncomfortable in a situation or if
you feel you are being pressured into unwanted sex, you probably are.
Get out of the situation as quickly as possible. Don't be afraid about
being rude.
4. DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN A BAD SITUATION Pay attention to what is
going on around you. Avoid
isolated spots. Have your own transportation.
5. WATCH ALCOHOL AND DRUG INTAKE. Alcohol and drugs interfere with clear
thinking and effective communication. Remember you are not as in control
if you have been using drugs or alcohol.
6. BE ASSERTIVE, FORTHRIGHT AND DEFINITE. Don't go along with any
behavior that makes you feel uncomfortable. It is better to be
embarrassed than raped.
7. YELL SCREAM! It may not be ladylike but it may keep you safe.
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